What Happens When a Parent Violates a Custody Agreement in North Carolina?
What Happens When a Parent Violates a Custody Agreement in North Carolina?
Child custody agreements are legally binding arrangements that outline each parent's rights and responsibilities regarding their child’s care. When a parent violates a custody order in North Carolina, it can lead to serious legal consequences. Understanding what steps to take in such situations can help protect your rights and the best interests of your child.

Common Custody Violations
A parent may violate a custody order in several ways, including:
- Denying Visitation: Preventing the other parent from seeing the child during their designated time.
- Failure to Return the Child: Keeping the child longer than allowed by the agreement.
- Interfering with Communication: Blocking phone calls or messages between the child and the other parent.
- Relocating Without Permission: Moving with the child out of state or to a distant location without court approval.
- Making Unapproved Decisions: Violating the terms regarding major decisions such as education, healthcare, or religious upbringing.
Legal Consequences of Violating a Custody Order
When a parent disregards a custody order, they may face:
- Contempt of Court: The violating parent can be held in contempt, which may result in fines, community service, or even jail time.
- Modification of Custody: The court may modify the custody arrangement in favor of the other parent if violations continue.
- Make-Up Time: A judge may order additional visitation to compensate for the lost time with the other parent.
- Criminal Charges: In extreme cases, custody interference could lead to criminal penalties.
Steps to Take if the Other Parent Violates the Custody Order
If the other parent is not following the custody arrangement, consider these steps:
- Document the Violations: Keep records of missed visits, messages, and any other evidence.
- Communicate: Try to resolve the issue with the other parent if possible.
- File a Contempt Motion: If the violations persist, you can file a motion with the court to enforce the order.
- Seek Legal Assistance: Consulting an attorney can help you understand your options and ensure your rights are protected.
At The Stiltner Law Firm, PLLC, we provide legal guidance to parents facing custody disputes in North Carolina. If you need assistance enforcing a custody order or modifying an existing agreement, our firm is here to help.


